| Physical Abuse | 
Emotional & Psychological Abuse | 
Sexual Abuse | 
| Pinch/Squeeze | 
Joking about habits/making insults | 
Sexist jokes | 
| Push/Shove | 
Ignoring partner’s feelings | 
Sexual objectification | 
| Shake/Jerk | 
Withholding approval as punishment | 
Jealousy | 
| Slap | 
Yelling | 
Minimizing partner’s feelings and needs regarding sex | 
| Bite | 
Name-calling | 
Criticizing partner sexually | 
| Push/Shake/Slap that bruises | 
Calling partner a “sell-out" | 
Unwanted touch | 
| Punch/Hit | 
Repeated insults/labeling | 
Withholding sex and affection | 
| Kick | 
Threatening to “out” partner | 
Sexual labels like “whore” or “frigid" | 
| Choke | 
Humiliation in private | 
Always demanding sex | 
| Throwing objects | 
Ridiculing partner’s gender identity | 
Forcing partner to watch sexual acts with others | 
| Target physical blows to specific parts of the body | 
Humiliation in public | 
Demanding sex with threats | 
| Use of household objects as weapons | 
Blaming partner for all faults | 
Forcing sex | 
| Throwing person | 
Threats of violence/retaliation | 
Forcing sex with others | 
| Restraining and physical blows | 
Putting down partner’s abilities to act on own behalf | 
Forcing uncomfortable sex | 
| Abuse that requires medical treatment | 
Hiding/destroying partner’s adaptive equipment | 
Forcing sex after beatings | 
| Use of conventional weapons | 
Demanding all of partner’s attention/restricting contact with others | 
Sadism | 
| Abuse that leads to disfigurement or disability | 
Unpredictable consequences or actions | 
Murder | 
| Murder | 
Attacking sense of reality | 
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Murder | 
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